Masculinity Saturday: The Do’s And Dont’s

Below is a list of things men should do or never do;

1. Men, don’t bother people with unnecessary calls to attend your fundraising for a wedding. Fundraisings are for emergencies like funerals, medical bills, etc. If you can't afford a wedding don't do it.
2. Men, you were so busy chasing a lady that you forgot to work on building yourself? Now you are broke. Don't you get it? Women come and go, but you're with yourself FOREVER. You have to invest in yourself every single day. A woman who is meant for you will stay and you will not have to chase her instead of your dreams.
3. Men, if you choose a girl over pursuing your potential, over time you will lose both your potential and the girl. Be wise.
4. Men, never express doubt if she likes you, or not. Behave as if you are certain that attraction is present. Women will often fall into this frame. If you openly express self-doubt in your worth as a man, the idea may become a self-sabotage self-fulling prophecy.
5. Men, if you're trying to keep your woman, you've already lost. Your biggest worry needs to be your business, your book, your project, and yourself. Women don't want to be their man's biggest accomplishment. Don't make her your world, bring her into the world. Focus!
6. Men, if she's ignoring you, then stop chasing her. This seems obvious, but most guys don't get it. Focus on your own business. If she reaches out, great. If she doesn't, she is not meant for you. Don’t force, you will be heartbroken.
7. Men, a date isn't about food but getting to know each other. If a woman is genuinely interested in you, she won't mind meeting you without food involved. Don't be a guy, going above and beyond to impress a lady with an expensive date. To see if she's really interested in meeting you, remove food from the equation. No to dates that involve food unless she is paying or she's your woman!!!
8. Men, being available all the time does not equate to high value. Don’t make yourself too available, you will be used.
9. Men, if she hails far away from the highway, she still has feminine instincts. She wants children, a farm, and a home. She is a keeper. If she hails near the highway, - she wants a nice car, a petrol station, and nice perfumes. Not a keeper. Avoid the highway.
10. Men, don't double text. Until you hear from that woman after your first text, she's never to hear from you again. And don't insult her for ignoring your text, that's not alpha, you're just a bitter beta. Simply unfollow or just delete the contact.