Is Marriage A Disaster?
Is marriage in this generation a failure? Is marriage a ruse? Is it a waste of time for me to marry my partner? Should I devote myself solely to him/her?
Many questions have always arisen, particularly concerning marriage issues in the current generation. There has recently been a lot of information about the importance of getting married to their partner. People used to be able to respect marriage. Many marriages have recently failed, which has had a significant impact on how the younger generation views marriage.
It appears that as the world advances, so do other aspects of life. In most cases, you'll find that many people, particularly the younger generation, are now choosing not to commit to a single relationship.
Some people would even prefer to be "friends for benefit" with multiple partners in order to avoid being committed.
What Are Friends With Benefits (FWB)
Friendship with benefits can be difficult to define. It's somewhere between a dating and a friendship relationship. Friends with benefits typically refer to when people who know each other engage in intimate/sexual activity without actually dating each other.
When you're dating someone, you usually have strong feelings for them. In a friends-with-benefits situation, you're just friends with who you hang out with and occasionally have sex/be intimate with each other. Friends with benefits may be allowed to date other people.
The marriage topic has received a lot of criticism, with some claiming that the problem is shared by both parties in the relationship rather than with one. Some have also claimed that the problem arose as a result of the church, elders, and society failing to fulfill their duties and responsibilities.
Women want men to be traditional (Total providers, protectors, with chilvary) yet women themselves lack traditional values (purity, virginity in marriage, submissiveness). Imbalance.— MwendeFrey (@mwendefrey) October 25, 2022
A thread shared by one of the Twitter fans drew a lot of attention as people expressed their thoughts on how marriage is perceived in the modern world.
It appears that most people are losing sight of what marriage is and how to approach it. This has resulted in an increase in single parenthood, where both men and women find it easier to raise their children without involving the other party.
Recently, there has also been an increase in the number of single mothers who have come out to explain why they should remain single even after having multiple children with various partners.
This is a topic that requires a lot of attention, especially from specialists in this field, because many people are becoming victims. One of the best ways to deal with this situation is to gain a better understanding of what marriage is and to participate in marriage/couple classes offered, particularly in churches, to become more knowledgeable.
What is marriage?
Marriage is a culturally and frequently legally recognized union of spouses. It establishes their rights and obligations, as well as their rights and obligations to their children and in-laws.
Marriage is the start of a family and a life-long commitment. It allows you to develop selflessness as you serve your wife and children. Marriage is a spiritual and emotional union as well as a physical union. This union is analogous to the one that exists between God and His Church.
Marriage is a transformative act that alters how two people view each other, the future, and their roles in society. Marriage focuses on daily maintenance and cultivating appreciation for one another.
Here are some thoughts on what marriage appears to be like.
At 24 I really wanted to marry and have a family. But now I no longer want anything to do with marriage.— FRANKLINE SUNDAY???????? (@WaruhiuFranklin) October 24, 2022
Women are not good people!
11 Things that Needs To Be Learnt 4 Marriage— WarepamorSammy ???????? (@Warepamorsammy) October 24, 2022
* Conflict Resolution
* Financial Management
* Emotional Intelligence
* The Act of Parenting
* Risk Management
* Impromptu Decision Making
* Anger Management
*Siblings rivalry management
* Ability to listen
Marriage benefits the woman more than the man.— Substone Osoro (@Osoro_Ouko) October 24, 2022