Unrealistic Expectations ladies Have in Relationships
Ladies are most likely to have too high expectations of their Mr "Right". This makes them end up with faked personalities as their partners. Expectations are good but don't be too high nor low.
Anne Mwangi 
It feels great when someone you love has a "crush" on you. Most ladies are fans of soap operas, viewing celebrities' lifestyles and end up admiring them. All relationships posted on social media seem exciting giving pressure to some to keep up with their lifestyle. The reality is there's no perfect man or woman hence no relationship without faults. Here are some of the expectations ladies have that never occur in reality.
- He will change to please me: If you accept your man with all his characters while dating, stop expecting him to fit your own image it doesn't happen. Continue embracing him as you did before even with his flaws. Learn to work out the relationship with his good side or strength through appreciation he can improve on his weaknesses. " See the imperfect perfectly."
- No disagreements; he will always approve all your ideas and opinions. This doesn’t happen on planet earth and if it does one partner is under manipulation.
- I must be the center of his universe; you expect a lot of attention. As much you truly love one another, you both had personal goals, school, work, family, etc, before merging. He still has to nurture other aspects of life like you too.
- He is the source of your happiness; learn to make yourself happy. It's easier to share happiness when you don't rely on it to come from him.
- He ought to know what I'm thinking or feeling. Unless you are dating or married to a physicist, of which he might still be clueless especially if he has been very busy. Speak up, let him know that issue in your mind, solving will be easier.
- He will pay all my bills. Don't be a liability to your partner. He might easily become tired of you when there are economical challenges. Have an agreement on your expectations versus his on finances and responsibilities at the beginning. Stop this imagination, let him do it out of his wish and will.
- He is the solution to my problems, he will be my strength in my weakness. Kindly solve your problems first before dating or marrying; whether it's self-esteem, finances, or any other, work it out. If not it will be a toxic relationship.
Those were just a few of the unrealistic expectations ladies have towards their boyfriends and husbands. Next time we shall lay down men's unrealistic expectations. What are other unrealistic expectations you know? I would love to see your comments.
